Thursday, July 5, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
a newbie to marriage
At the beginning of my marriage to Adam I realized how selfish I was: single, only having to look out for myself.
My wants.
My needs.
My money.
My time.
Mine.
Mine.
Mine.
I've had to change my mindset to "us" with all of those things.
Today I realized how selfish I still am even after almost 6 months of marriage. Sure I've changed my basic thought process since getting married but I'm still consumed with me, myself and I.
I have put MY life as the focus of my life. I've forgotten, neglected, shamed my first Love. I've put my physical life before Christ. It wasn't hard for my own desires to give birth to sin as the Book of James warns.
Thankfully, I have a Savior Who loves me and desires LIFE more abundantly for me.
My struggles:
Change. I hate change. I've been working with the Lord to overcome this fear.
No family. No job. No friends....all huge changes.all very hard.
New town, new state, new people, new job, new church....all new.all different.all changes.
Adam is constantly telling me to affect change where I can.
So I've been pursuing friendships. I have been making the first move. This is hard for me because I tend to be very shy at the beginning of a friendship.
But.I.Love.Coffee. And having coffee dates takes pressure off of me because I feel like if someone comes to my house it needs to be the perfect little American home. And I am far from perfect.
I pray that the Lord will continue to convict me as I strive to live for Christ. I also ask for prayer that I will keep Christ first. That I will put Adam above myself. I ask for prayer as I figure out how to enhance Adam's life and not turn it upside down because of changes I want (but don't always need).
I'm a newbie to marriage and need prayers.
My wants.
My needs.
My money.
My time.
Mine.
Mine.
Mine.
I've had to change my mindset to "us" with all of those things.
Today I realized how selfish I still am even after almost 6 months of marriage. Sure I've changed my basic thought process since getting married but I'm still consumed with me, myself and I.
I have put MY life as the focus of my life. I've forgotten, neglected, shamed my first Love. I've put my physical life before Christ. It wasn't hard for my own desires to give birth to sin as the Book of James warns.
Thankfully, I have a Savior Who loves me and desires LIFE more abundantly for me.
My struggles:
Change. I hate change. I've been working with the Lord to overcome this fear.
No family. No job. No friends....all huge changes.all very hard.
New town, new state, new people, new job, new church....all new.all different.all changes.
Adam is constantly telling me to affect change where I can.
So I've been pursuing friendships. I have been making the first move. This is hard for me because I tend to be very shy at the beginning of a friendship.
But.I.Love.Coffee. And having coffee dates takes pressure off of me because I feel like if someone comes to my house it needs to be the perfect little American home. And I am far from perfect.
I pray that the Lord will continue to convict me as I strive to live for Christ. I also ask for prayer that I will keep Christ first. That I will put Adam above myself. I ask for prayer as I figure out how to enhance Adam's life and not turn it upside down because of changes I want (but don't always need).
I'm a newbie to marriage and need prayers.
Monday, January 2, 2012
2012 - Welcome
2012. Thank you for coming. Some of my favorite memories from 2011:
February: Adam sent me my first ever Valentine's Day flowers. A dozen red roses.
March: Adam proposed on the 17th, St. Patrick's Day. I picked out my wedding dress, bridesmaid dresses, and created my registries.
July: Adam took me to Upstate (Western) New York and also to Niagara Falls.
August: I got married and took an incredible honeymoon to the State of Washington.
October: My amazing nephew Madden was born and I also carved my first pumpkin.
November: I cooked my first turkey (and it didn't cook all the way) and also served my In-Laws Thanksgiving Dinner (I cooked everything but the gravy).
December: First Christmas as a married woman and also away from home. Also went to my first Bowl Game (Music City Bowl). And I also saw the inside of the Opryland Hotel.
My last moments in 2011 and my first moments in 2012 were spent listening to the Avett Brothers live in concert.
It's been a good year. I'm very thankful for Adam and I love that he desires to take me places I've never been. I am sooo looking forward to the new adventures 2012 will bring my way!
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Wedding Photography - Susan Whitley
Susan Whitley is the sweetest photographer you'll ever work with! I hate having my picture taken but with Susan I believe I could have taken pictures all day! She made the picture taking process a breeze!
Adam holding all the bouquets! My dress and all of my bridesmaids dresses were bought from Treasures in Atlanta. The lovely Williams ladies were so sweet and helpful in helping me choose the dress of my dreams!
I made and decorated my wedding cake. The topper we bought from Amazon and since we had a photo booth for our guests enjoyment we decided it would be cute to take a picture just like our cake topper.
Adam and I chose to have a "First Look" session. I got the idea from Jasmine Star (read this and this) and, I admit, convinced Adam it was the best idea! And it was! It was so special to be able to see Adam before things got super crazy! I even forgot Josh and Susan were in the room. I was excited about him seeing my dress, and to just see him. He started crying. Heavens, he has such a tender heart.
Adam holding all the bouquets! My dress and all of my bridesmaids dresses were bought from Treasures in Atlanta. The lovely Williams ladies were so sweet and helpful in helping me choose the dress of my dreams!
The groomsmen spelling out my name "L.Y.D.I.A" :)
My precious Flower Girl. She gave me "thumbs-up" throughout the entire wedding ceremony. Her dress is from Etsy.
The bridesmaids bouquets (I bought the bouquets from Micheal's and then wrapped the stems with black ribbon and tied a shimmering silver blow at the top).
Per Adam's request we took "football" pictures! It was a lot of fun!
Moments before the wedding ceremony starts.
The reception was a blast! Everyone dancing and taking goofy pictures in the photo booth and eating incredibly good cake! Best day ever.
Our first dance as a married couple during which I convinced Adam it was time to leave. ;)
My wedding day was incredible. I cannot thank Susan and Josh enough for coming South to give me such beautiful memories.
Wedding Pictures - Josh Jack Carl
I had the best photographers ever. I realize everyone thinks that but really I did have the best. My sister recommended Josh Jack Carl to me and we connected over Twitter. I asked him if he knew a female photographer who would be interested in working with him and he said he'd ask a friend and that's how I got Susan Whitley!
Here are a few of Jack's pictures. Adam loved working with him. He said Josh made everyone feel relaxed and comfortable and the guys just had fun! We appreciate everything Josh did for us and we LOVE all of his pictures!
A huge THANK YOU to Josh for taking such amazing pictures!
I'll post another blog with some of Susan's pictures.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Poll TIME!
If you are a married female and someone hosted a wedding shower for you, please do me a huge favor and complete my survey!
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I'd appreciate it soo much! Please also share with other married ladies you know!
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I'd appreciate it soo much! Please also share with other married ladies you know!
Saturday, October 1, 2011
I Am Married and Alive
I've been thinking about blogging for a while now but every time I sat down to write nothing would come out. But, finally, here I am.
I'm married and have not fallen off the face of the earth. I'm still alive. :) I've been married for 41 days. I LOVE being married. I love not being eight hours apart and waiting months on end to see Adam. I love being with him.
But it's been hard for me. I've cried. I've been angry. I've been lonely. I've moved to a town where I know no one and the women in the church my age have to desire to introduce themselves to me. I don't understand churches who don't feel a need to welcome a stranger.
I have one friend and I believe she needs my friendship as much as I need hers. God provides.
I miss my family so much. I've never lived away from home and now I find it probably would have been beneficial for me to have spent some time on my own. I don't for a second regret the decision I made to stay home I'm just saying that it would have helped with the transition.
I don't yet have a job and it's afforded me plenty of time to watch TV shows I've really never watched before (Millionaire Matchmaker, NCIS, The Newlywed Game, etc, etc). I've spent so much time rearranging the house and trying to straighten and clean and do laundry! I wash dishes about twice a week. I wash towels once a week. I iron Adam's dress clothes all week. I have a lot to do but it's not near as much fun without someone(s) to boss around!
I have started a few projects. Mostly with wedding pictures and dressing up the frames a bit. It's simple, cheap and takes a perfectly good frame to a piece of beautiful art!
All you need is fancy scrapbook paper, clear tape, and a picture frame! Just cut the paper to fit the matting and tape together. I actually taped my picture to the paper as well so it wouldn't fall when I hung it up. And you're done!
Look at how ORANGE his beard looks! I love it. I hope my kids have red, red hair! :)
I'm married and have not fallen off the face of the earth. I'm still alive. :) I've been married for 41 days. I LOVE being married. I love not being eight hours apart and waiting months on end to see Adam. I love being with him.
But it's been hard for me. I've cried. I've been angry. I've been lonely. I've moved to a town where I know no one and the women in the church my age have to desire to introduce themselves to me. I don't understand churches who don't feel a need to welcome a stranger.
I have one friend and I believe she needs my friendship as much as I need hers. God provides.
I miss my family so much. I've never lived away from home and now I find it probably would have been beneficial for me to have spent some time on my own. I don't for a second regret the decision I made to stay home I'm just saying that it would have helped with the transition.
I don't yet have a job and it's afforded me plenty of time to watch TV shows I've really never watched before (Millionaire Matchmaker, NCIS, The Newlywed Game, etc, etc). I've spent so much time rearranging the house and trying to straighten and clean and do laundry! I wash dishes about twice a week. I wash towels once a week. I iron Adam's dress clothes all week. I have a lot to do but it's not near as much fun without someone(s) to boss around!
I have started a few projects. Mostly with wedding pictures and dressing up the frames a bit. It's simple, cheap and takes a perfectly good frame to a piece of beautiful art!
All you need is fancy scrapbook paper, clear tape, and a picture frame! Just cut the paper to fit the matting and tape together. I actually taped my picture to the paper as well so it wouldn't fall when I hung it up. And you're done!
Look at how ORANGE his beard looks! I love it. I hope my kids have red, red hair! :)
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